tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post6904822713588453530..comments2024-02-27T07:05:04.014-05:00Comments on Adam Szymkowicz: What is your definition of success?Adam Szymkowiczhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10195622524268234675noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-42692542275812132712017-09-12T02:14:48.114-04:002017-09-12T02:14:48.114-04:00What's happening, awesome website you have got...What's happening, awesome website you have got in here<br /><a href="http://doctors-medicine.com/viagra-pills.html" rel="nofollow">generic viagra 100mg online</a><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03222186550150751164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-48368052474735106842008-10-26T15:00:00.000-04:002008-10-26T15:00:00.000-04:00There is only ever one measure of success, and tha...There is only ever one measure of success, and that is the amount of joy I feel right now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-28882495102176855552008-10-10T22:56:00.000-04:002008-10-10T22:56:00.000-04:00For me, success would be a play of mine being adap...For me, success would be a play of mine being adapted into a movie starring Morton Downey, Jr.Jason Grotehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14090513891475658978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-44078959407898249042008-10-09T15:52:00.000-04:002008-10-09T15:52:00.000-04:00I'm not sure what Joe Six-Pack's email is, but in ...I'm not sure what Joe Six-Pack's email is, but in the UK he goes by the name "Joe Bloggs" - did you know that?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-17305327342986479782008-10-09T11:26:00.000-04:002008-10-09T11:26:00.000-04:00OK. So do you have Joe's email. I'll get right o...OK. So do you have Joe's email. I'll get right on that.Adam Szymkowiczhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10195622524268234675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-22915661630292340022008-10-09T11:21:00.000-04:002008-10-09T11:21:00.000-04:00Success Barometer #2When Joe Six-Pack knows who yo...Success Barometer #2<BR/><BR/>When Joe Six-Pack knows who you are, you are famous. When Joe can rattle off the titles of your work, you are a success. When Joe can correctly spell your name, you are a legend.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-2303213012579353132008-10-08T17:03:00.000-04:002008-10-08T17:03:00.000-04:00I'm with you, Adam. It's definitely what keeps me...I'm with you, Adam. It's definitely what keeps me sane. And it's what gets me up in the morning. I've been writing at 5am since the summer, and once my body got in the habit, I realized that it's something that I look forward to every day. Everyone has their thing. For writers, it's writing, whether we attain "success" as the outside world defines it or not.Patrick Gabridgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11497038051641691987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-33633319948004612332008-10-08T15:16:00.000-04:002008-10-08T15:16:00.000-04:00Thanks, R, Patrick and Lawrence. Great to hear!! ...Thanks, R, Patrick and Lawrence. Great to hear!! I wish I could write every day. If I could, I would have finished that novel by now. But I'm with you on the writing being it's own joy. I don't know about all of you, but it's what keeps me sane. Perhaps it makes me insane too but I'm looking at that.Adam Szymkowiczhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10195622524268234675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-36464488666348291942008-10-08T10:01:00.000-04:002008-10-08T10:01:00.000-04:00As someone still struggling to make a name for him...As someone still struggling to make a name for himself as a playwright, I've had to redefine success for myself.<BR/><BR/>I consider success writing well on any given day. I write every day without fail and just doing so, I think, constitutes success. And if I do it really well, well, that's just icing on the cake.<BR/><BR/>The writing has to be a reward in and of itself or else I would go out of my mind.<BR/><BR/>I suppose this is defining success down, but I am in this for the long haul. If I am still writing every day at 65, that's enough success for me.Lawrence Goodmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13738687626720570671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-62989617614906141172008-10-07T20:31:00.000-04:002008-10-07T20:31:00.000-04:00Obviously, as others have pointed out, this is a c...Obviously, as others have pointed out, this is a complicated question.<BR/><BR/>I set goals for myself every year, both in terms of what I want to create, and what I want to achieve, in terms of production and publication.<BR/><BR/>I'm most interested in seeing what I can create that is interesting to me and to an audience. The longer I continue to write plays, the more I see that though I can certainly send out a lot of scripts and build relationships with theatres, a lot of the success I may want, in terms of public exposure, is beyond my control (subject to my willingness and availability to act as producer, I suppose). Though I certainly get down on myself for not getting more, larger productions of my work, it's certainly healthier for my own sanity if I worry the most about success in the realm over which I have direct control--what I write (how much and how good it is). Defining my success based on outside factors seems destined to lead to misery (not that I don't have my moments where I'm itching for a big LORT production that would certainly make me feel more complete, right?).Patrick Gabridgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11497038051641691987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-45610361545066111102008-10-07T17:07:00.000-04:002008-10-07T17:07:00.000-04:00Good question, Adam, and really good comments so f...Good question, Adam, and really good comments so far, too. Imagine that-lol. For me, I feel as if success comes in stages. Running my own company for over a decade (debt-free) has been a big success, and winning an obie award for it's humble work was pleasant confirmation. But making all of my living making theater would be the next big success (part-time is really just 2 full-time jobs); and I feel like that would make more successes more possible than anything else right now. I have much more to accomplish, and dammit, if I could just get to that stage, I could really set a path for the next decade of successes, tba.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-68555234548175056922008-10-07T16:31:00.000-04:002008-10-07T16:31:00.000-04:00yes, 2.25. Thanks! I can get half a sandwich.yes, 2.25. Thanks! I can get half a sandwich.Adam Szymkowiczhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10195622524268234675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-69751784724005900282008-10-07T15:28:00.000-04:002008-10-07T15:28:00.000-04:00I'm afraid that we didn't have it in stock. I off...I'm afraid that we didn't have it in stock. I offered to special order it, but he would have had to pay in advance and declined (on account of DPS's scripts are sent to us on a nonreturnable basis).<BR/><BR/>But it did remind me that at some point I have to get around to ordering and reading them, so that'll be $2.25, I guess.Seth Christenfeldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17782151625611528850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-31094806420227577322008-10-07T15:12:00.000-04:002008-10-07T15:12:00.000-04:00Thanks, Michele and Anon and Catherine. I would l...Thanks, Michele and Anon and Catherine. I would love to make a living writing, but like Catherine implies, it's not easy.<BR/><BR/>I like what you say Catherine about success being tied to what we ourselves can do. Otherwise, it's just looking for outside affirmation. i can work on my writing, but I have no control over how people respond to it and wanting things that i have no say in can be maddening.<BR/><BR/>Kristyn has something to say here too about taking perception of success one step at a time:<BR/>http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=29711691449Adam Szymkowiczhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10195622524268234675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-56524604037960382102008-10-07T15:07:00.000-04:002008-10-07T15:07:00.000-04:00Sweet, Seth. That's 75 cents in my pocket. Of co...Sweet, Seth. That's 75 cents in my pocket. Of course it's much cooler than that. I don't suppose you had it in stock though. That would be cool.Adam Szymkowiczhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10195622524268234675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-18087848274124176062008-10-07T15:00:00.000-04:002008-10-07T15:00:00.000-04:00Adam--yes, I'm the Seth of Inscribed in the Cheese...Adam--yes, I'm the Seth of <A HREF="http://gruyere.livejournal.com" REL="nofollow">Inscribed in the Cheese</A>. (End shameless plug.) I have indeed been seeing a lot of musicals, but NYMF'll do that to me. (And Saturday I'm seeing <I>Toxic Avenger</I>, which I sincerely hope does not suck.)<BR/><BR/>A young man (at least he sounded young) called the B&N I work at in White Plains on Sunday asking for a copy of <I>Nerve</I>.Seth Christenfeldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17782151625611528850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-36095392394709464192008-10-07T14:07:00.000-04:002008-10-07T14:07:00.000-04:00You've brought me out of the woodwork on this one....You've brought me out of the woodwork on this one.<BR/><BR/>The truth for me is that there's a gap between what I "feel" success to be and what I "believe" success to be. It's a very heady rush to garner good reviews, to get those phone calls from the agent saying so and so wants to produce your play, so and so wants to commission you. In fact, I find "good news" becomes a bit addictive and the more you get of it, the more you want and expect. Getting paid follows the same trajectory. Once you get a commission or a royalty advance of a certain amount, you really don’t want to go backwards. <BR/><BR/>I believe, however, that no good lies down this path. No artistic career follows a path of pure progression through the years. One is bound to have times of feast and famine. To remain sane and also because I just believe it’s better for both the soul and the work, I think I’m better served to recalibrate the measuring stick of success to things within my control: is the writing getting better? Are my work habits steady and deep? Am I sharing my work with others? Is my writing contributing to something outside of my own personal success? <BR/><BR/>Is it important to earn a living? Absolutely. How else can you pay for shelter and child care and all those things you need in order to have space and time to write. But that’s not success; that’s sheer necessity. And as a playwright you’re going to have to most likely find ancillary income either through teaching or other media. (That doesn’t surprise anyone, right? They do tell you that in all those MFA programs, right?)<BR/><BR/>In short, I guess I’d feel incredibly successful if I won the Pulitzer, but I think I would actually be successful if I continued to write and grow as an artist for the next fifty years, never won the Pulitzer, and didn’t really care.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-23318251433666720532008-10-07T11:38:00.000-04:002008-10-07T11:38:00.000-04:00I'm a playwright in NYC who graduated from an MFA ...I'm a playwright in NYC who graduated from an MFA program in '04. Being able to quit my day job would constitute success for me, that is being able to make a living from a combination of playwriting, screenwriting, TV writing, teaching... I'd be pretty satisfied with that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-21927854656453254242008-10-07T09:51:00.000-04:002008-10-07T09:51:00.000-04:00You'll know you're a success when you have been qu...You'll know you're a success when you have been quoted on a refrigerator magnet.Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03761617148954469477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-27762291562641862412008-10-07T09:46:00.000-04:002008-10-07T09:46:00.000-04:00oh, wait, or are you IITC? If so, you've been see...oh, wait, or are you IITC? If so, you've been seeing a lot of musicals!Adam Szymkowiczhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10195622524268234675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-43057102871874262712008-10-07T06:24:00.000-04:002008-10-07T06:24:00.000-04:00I miss you, Malachy. I hope I get to see you here...I miss you, Malachy. I hope I get to see you here in the cold city in the not too far future.<BR/><BR/>Wow, Seth. Is that true? Are you in the Chicago area?Adam Szymkowiczhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10195622524268234675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-83271212687915708542008-10-07T01:02:00.000-04:002008-10-07T01:02:00.000-04:00If you feel like you're a success, then you are on...If you feel like you're a success, then you are one.<BR/><BR/>Or maybe when someone calls a suburban Barnes and Noble looking for one of your plays. that happened on Sunday. The caller was extremely surprised that he didn't need to spell "Szymkowicz" for me.Seth Christenfeldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17782151625611528850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11673928.post-87601972551761260372008-10-06T23:28:00.000-04:002008-10-06T23:28:00.000-04:00I think even if I had "success" I'd feel like an a...I think even if I had "success" I'd feel like an abject failure. It's just my nature.<BR/><BR/>That said, when I think back on the times I felt good about what I was doing, well they were times when I wasn't thinking about success at all, but rather really interested and engaged in learning how to do something.<BR/><BR/>That goes for my advertising career as well.<BR/><BR/>And my "failed" attempts to get into places I wanted to get into. <BR/><BR/>I don't know if that makes any sense, but it's true.Malachy Walshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17729185865764121986noreply@blogger.com